Bullying
The subject of bullying is very prevalent in our media these days, as well it should be. The violence of bullying has continually escalated in the lives of school children, so that schools, bus drivers, parents and neighbors are finally beginning to take a stand against these predators. However, bullying is not always limited to school age children. There are forms of bullying that take place every day in our homes, community politics and in our businesses.
When I was in 5th grade, I was the
victim of a bully. I went to Burgess Elementary in East Atlanta and in those
days there was no school bus service in the City of Atlanta, so we either
walked to school or our parents drove us. All of us in our part of the
neighborhood walked together, weather permitting, and always had a good time on
the trips back and forth to home. Being a member of the school band, I had to
stay later some days and walked home on my own. For some reason, and with my
luck, the local bully lived on the street behind me and stayed after school a
lot for detention, so at times he was leaving school at the same time as I did
and we were walking the same streets.
I was a skinny, nerdy kid with a band
instrument. Walking home alone. That, plus the fact that Nick was constantly in
detention, and with a bad attitude, was all it took for him to decide I was an
easy target. The bullying began with taunts and words, but after a couple weeks
it led to an encounter between Nick and a couple of his goon friends…and me.
Punches began to fall, book bags began to be thrown, blood began to flow and we
finally ended it at the creek that separated my path home from his. Later that
afternoon, Nick showed up at the back door and said he was supposed to
apologize to me. As I recall, we glared for a couple minutes, and then
apologized to each other and it was over for the time being. I don’t know if
another encounter would have occurred since a few weeks after that, Nick fell
down an elevator shaft at his dad’s company and didn’t survive. Tough way to
go, but in my small 5th grade mind, I figured it some type of divine
retribution.
In the section of the Bible known as the
Sermon on the Mount, Jesus taught us that we will be blessed when people
“revile us, and persecute us and say all many of evil things against us,
falsely, for His sake. Rejoice and be very glad, for great will be your reward
in Heaven.” (Matthew 5:11). This passage directly speaks to the bullying we as
Christians may encounter during our daily lives.
Have you ever been made fun of because of
your beliefs? Have you ever encountered any type of discrimination because your
belief in God and Christ was known? Have you ever just gone along with the
crowd because you didn’t want them to know you were a Christian and shouldn’t
see that movie/concert/hear that joke? I’ve been there and taken the easy road
out far too many times.
I am promised that if I allow myself to be
reviled….persecuted….talked about….bullied for the sake of Christ that my
reward in heaven will be great. And that I will be blessed here on earth. It
takes strength to stand up for our God and our belief in Him, and we will
encounter types of bullying when we do so, but God also promises that He will
take care of us. And He is a whole lot bigger than any bully.
So for today my friends, this has been the
gospel according to Jimmy.
1 Comments:
You picked such a great topic and one with which I am familiar.
My son endured bullying, even by teachers, during a rough period due to his being overweight (my husband had left us). No one is exempt from being a target.
I worked at a job for 4 years, where I was ostracized due to my beliefs. I was the only one in the office that did not participate in the gambling pool, I would not lie to their wives about where they were if the wife called (they would be out golfing). There were other things but you get the picture.
No one is exempt from being a bullys target.
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